Are you nipples super sensitive? You are not alone. Below is some advice given to a woman who orgasms from nipple stimulation.

I’d say there are a couple of things at work in your case. One is that you’re reacting to Oxytocin, which is a hormone related to breast feeding, bonding and uterine contractions. It’s secreted when someone sucks on your nipples, as well as when you have an orgasm, and can make you feel all sexed up and happy. I’m still amazed that someone hasn’t figured out how to extract it, cut it with speed and sell it at raves.

Also, people can do pretty much anything they to want if they put their minds to it. If you wanted to have an orgasm while sitting in an economics seminar, for example, you could. The brain is our biggest sex organ, so whatever you latch onto up there can get you excellent results down there. In fact, I’ve taught myself to have an orgasm with zero physical stimulation. Hands free. I just get a filth fest going on in my brain, concentrate real hard, and there she blows. I’m confident that with a little hard work and a good lesbian gang bang fantasy or two, you could make your knobs go to 11 as well. (Source)

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A British woman writes into the UK Mirror's resident sex doctor about her new boyfriend's lack of ejaculation during sex. Diagnosis? Don't panic:

There are many reasons why he might be finding it hard to climax.

It's not just women who get first night nerves. There is a lot of pressure on men to perform between the sheets, particularly if the relationship means a lot to them.

It's easier for women to hide their nerves in bed and allow the man to take the lead. Put yourself in his shoes. He knows that you've had a difficult run of relationships and is probably feeling the pressure to make sure he doesn't let you down in the same way. Give him time and when he feels more confident in your sex life, he'll perform without any problems. If the situation doesn't improve he might be suffering from a condition called retarded ejaculation.

Men with this disorder enjoy sex and get satisfaction but just can't reach climax. It can be a distressing problem and he's probably had the same issue with previous girlfriends.

Retarded ejaculation can be caused by a variety of factors.

Hidden feelings of guilt or fear about sex that may go back to childhood may be holding him back. He may not even recognise the complex emotions at work.

Alternatively, health problems and prescribed medications can interfere with ejaculation.

If you like this man then don't give up on him - give him the support and patience he gave you.

If you feel confident, find a time when you're both relaxed and bring up the subject. Listen to what he has to say and give him time if he doesn't feel ready to talk. (Source)

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Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side. You can prop yourself up on your elbows.

The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it is well lubricated. Once you're in position, slightly tilt your head back and extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue just as you would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. (Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat open as you would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don't 'relax' your throat muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for the penis to enter).

Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.

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Eventually I could no longer help myself, and I stealthily slipped my hand under my panties. I earnestly fiddled and prodded and soon I was getting warmer. My breath would quicken and I’d stifle a moan, but I would stop abruptly if I heard anyone stir even a little. I was terrified of discovery and painfully frustrated.

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The female condom doesn't look like your average prophylactic. Made of thin polyurethane rather than latex, the female condom is a long tube that has a large circular ring on both ends.

When the condom is inserted into the vagina, one ring stays inside to keep the condom secure and the other one rests outside the vagina. The upside of using this condom is that it can be inserted up to 8 hours before sex, meaning that a bit of forward thinking could eliminate the annoyance of halting the heat of the moment to put on a condom.

The polyurethane, thinner than latex, is said to give this condom a natural feel. However, in this case, the joy of nature might cost you the security of pregnancy prevention.

The female condom is significantly less effective in protecting against pregnancy than the male latex condom, though it is still effective in reducing the risk of STDs.

During intercourse, pay attention that the outer ring does not get pushed inside the vagina, and that the penis enters the vagina inside the condom rather than to the side of it.

A spermicide may be used in addition to the female condom, but it should be inserted into the vagina before the condom is inserted. (Source)

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When your "average Joe" condoms just aren't hitting the spot, so to speak, increased sensation (aka, Pleasure Shaped) condoms rush in to save the day. Take a regular latex condom, add ribs and studs to its exterior, and you've got the proper equation for explosive sex-that's the idea, at least.

This condom aims to achieve heightened sensation for both partners with its textural irregularities on the plain latex condom.

Variety abounds with this condom-it is sold in a multitude of patterns and textures. Some feature ribbing down the entire length of the condom; some have studs all over the outer surface. Others are a careful combination of both textures.

Since no increased sensation condom is exactly the same, the key is finding one that tickles you in all the right places. (Source)

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In the spirit of National Condom Week, I thought it might be cool to explore the various types of condoms available that are not widely known. Today we are continuing the series with the flavored condom:

Oral sex is no party when there are sexually transmitted diseases in the house. Effective in significantly reducing the risk of most STDs, condoms are necessary for maintaining health while engaging in oral sex.

Fortunately, flavored condoms eliminate the need to suffer through the not-so-fortunate taste of plain latex condoms while being just as effective in protecting against infection.

These condoms are coated in a layer of flavored lubricant on the outside and are most often accompanied by a corresponding scent and color, offering a multisensory experience.

Available in a wide variety of flavors ranging from fruity assortments to chocolate, cola and even mint, there is sure to be a flavor to satisfy even the most discriminating palates. (Source)

TNC recommends Condomania's flavored condom sampler, which includes a variety of flavors from Durex, Trustex, Paradise, and LifeStyle. Click the image below to learn more about the sampler pack.

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There is new hope for men who have trouble "going the distance" during sex. The desensitizing condom is made of latex and boasts a coating of special lubricant on the inside that contains benzocaine-the same stuff that is put in antiseptic ointment to numb cuts and scrapes.

The lubricant helps to stall the male climax, making sex longer-lasting for those partners who are used to being left unfulfilled.

While these condoms may seem like a godsend for pre-ejaculators everywhere, you should note a few minor-but of course serious-cautions: Warnings on some packages advise against eye contact and draw attention to the possibility of burning or itching for both partners. Keep the condoms out of your eyes and be sure to wash off the lubricant after sexual activity.

It is also important for men to remember that if the desensitizing condom fails to prevent pre-ejaculation, a more serious medical issue could be the cause. (Source)

TNC recommends the Trojan Extended Pleasure Condoms. Click the image to read more about and/or buy this condom.

 

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Q: So what is the deal with these warming lubes that seem to be the hot new thing? I see the commercials on TV and they’re at my local adult store. Have you tried them; do they love up to all the hype?

A: Warming lubes are the newest innovation in the field of lubrication and nearly all the major brands have produced their own version of the water-based stuff. The main ingredient is either Acacia Honey or some derivative (like in Astroglide Warming Liquid, Wet Warming Lubricant, and KY Warming Liquid), menthol (in ID Sensation, Hot Elbow Grease, and the glycerin-free Sliquid Sizzle), or in the most natural of them all, cinnamon bark (in Emerita OH). The honey or menthol creates a warming sensation that sends blood rushing to the genitals which helps the arousal process. Warming Lubes are not my cup of tea, but I have a very sensitive pussy. (In fact, the menthol and other ingredients can irritate the tissue of both the front and back holes). Like with lube in general, whether you like it is totally a matter of personal preference. Some people find the sensation to be very subtle, while some say they love how it make their privates tingle, and others say the feeling is like sticking Ben Gay in your pussy (way too intense, in other words). I recommend you get a sample size or two and experiment to see if you like it.

From Tristan @ Vivid-Ed.com

 

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Let's get real: we all know we need to work out on a regular basis, but sometimes we find it difficult to fit a trip to the gym into our schedules.  Viola! I give you this terrific 10 Minute @ Home Workout.

1. Start with your kitchen chair to warm up. Sit down and stand back up. Do this for one minute.

2. Go to the stairs and start climbing up one step at a time. Go up and down 8 to 10 times. If you don't have stairs, use a small step stool. Position it next to a wall so you can place your hand on the wall for balance. Step up and down on the stool (up with the right foot and then up with the left foot, down with the right and then down with the left) for one minute.

3. Go to a wall and place your back against it. Your feet should be about one foot away from the wall. Now, slide down the wall until the hips are parallel to the knees. The knees should be directly over the ankles. Keep your back pressed against the wall and place your hands comfortably on the thighs.  Hold this position for one minute using an egg timer. If you can't make the full minute, hold as long as you can.

4. Sit in the kitchen chair and hold detergent bottles, one in each hand. Curl them up toward your shoulders to work the biceps. Do three sets of 12 with a rest in between sets. Drink some water while you rest.

5. Place a three-foot strip of masking tape on the floor in front of you. Stand on one side of the tape and with both feet hop over the tape. Go back and forth for one minute on the egg timer.  If you can't jump with both feet, hop one foot to the other foot. Once you get the hang of it you will progress to hopping with both feet. This is great for getting your heart rate up, burning calories, strengthening your bones and improving balance.

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1: Shifting his weight back and forth on his heels. This is considered to be subconsciously a mirroring of “knee trembling”. One of the surest body language gestures that he is hot for you.

2: Hand pointing in the direction of his pelvis. If he has his hand in his front trouser pocket, or has his hand resting on his belt, with a finger pointing straight down to his pelvis then anyone looking at him is drawn to his crotch. His whole body is highlighting his groin in this highly sexual body language stance.

3: Stroking his nose. When a man spies a woman he is attracted to, then unconscious preening begins. Other body language gestures to look out for are rearranging his clothing, rubbing a finger along an eyebrow or pushing a hand through his hair. Along with the tie, the nose is a phallic symbol.

4: Playing with his tie. The tie is basically a signpost to his penis, according to body language experts. If he should start playing with or stroking his tie, then there is a great chance that he is interested in you. By taking the initiative yourself and stroking his tie admiringly, you are giving him a very strong sexual signal.

5: Sitting with legs wide open on the barstool. By sitting like this he is offering you a great view of his crotch. If he should start to rock back and forth on the stool as well, look out. The male body language here spells the one thing on his mind is you.

6: Standing with hands on his hips. By standing like this he is emphasizing his size. By taking up more space he is appearing larger and more domineering. In cave dwelling time’s females chose the bigger males for better means of survival, which explains why many girls go for the powerful and strapping type.

7: Pelvic display. The more enthusiastic the guy is, the further apart his legs will be, irrespective of whether he is standing up or sitting down. This is considered to be very primitive flirting body language and is also behavior seen in the monkey families. Basically he is showing you his fantastic package, on a purely subconscious level, of course.

 

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Just a quickie link out: I ran across this article last night which I thought gave some incredibly fabulous oral sex tips. Naturally, I wanted to share.

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This is part two of my informal "how to wear makeup like a movie star" series. Read about Bombshell Eyeshadow here.

1. Use a lip liner pencil to carefully outline just outside the natural line of your lips.

2. Fill in your lips with the lip liner, as using the liner under your lipstick will make the color last longer.

3. Using a color that is one or two shades lighter than the liner, apply lipstick or lipgloss INSIDE the lip line.

4. Dab of gloss or lipstick in a super-light shade from the same color family as your base lip color in the middle part of each lip.

5. Apply clear gloss over entire lips.

6. Using your fingertip, add a touch of white or silver eye shadow to highlight the center of your bottom lip.

7. Note: do not do that smack-your-lips thing when done, as that will only smudge the highlighting as well as make it likely to wear off sooner.

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Confession time: NaughtyBoyfriend has a thing for pantyhose. Most men do. I firmly believe that if they had to wear it, they would quickly loose their obsession, but that is another story. Anyway, pantyhose is sexy - even if you hate them, you can deny that they make your legs look lovey. And believe it or not, the right kind of pantyhose can actually make you feel pretty darn sexy.

I highly recommend thigh highs. They provide easy access, look incredible, are more comfortable, and allow you to get busy without having to bother with taking them off. No, you do not have to bother with garters - modern thigh highs have a bit of plastic at the top that holds them in place quite well. The best part, because they are much more common these days, is that you can pick up a relatively inexpensive pair almost anywhere.

Don't like thigh highs, or don't have time to run to the store? Grab an old inexpensive pair in your drawer and rip/cut a hole in the crotch. Again - the easy access factor can't be beat here.

So snag [bad pun] a set of these and pair them with a pair a naughty thongs or lacy little boy shorts. Really want to spice it up? Get a pair with a seam running up the back of your legs or even try fishnets. Then call your significant other (preferably at work) and tell him about it.

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1. Bathing suits are not cheap. If you are only going to wear it a couple of days, don't mortgage your house, ok? There are plenty of reasonably priced options available at places like Target and Kohl's.
2. Don't show more than you are comfortable with. Just because the other women at the complex pool wear thongs doesn't mean you can't feel good in your tanktini. 
   
3. Everyone looks terrible in the store lights. So stop screaming. If you think it might work, buy the suit and try it on at home when you don't feel so exposed. If you hate it, you can always return it (just don't take the sticker off the crotch).
4. Remember that we always are more critical of ourselves than everyone else. Sure, women can be bitchy, but no one is going to spend as much time picking out your flaws as you do. So try not to sweat it so much. The point of a swimsuit is to have fun in the sun. F-U-N. Get it? So relax. The best thing you can put on when going to the pool or beach is your self-confidence.

Remember...you can never look as bad as this guy below. Follow the cut for specific body type tips!

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If you are like me - a creature of habit - then you stick to what works. And that is fine. But I have also learned, especially when it comes to the way I look, that sometimes it is a good thing to break out of the normal routine and try something different.

Eye shadow, for me, was one of the things that lay outside the norm. Eye shadow was something that movie stars wore, that NaughtySister wore. It was not something that my "mascara + lipstick = go" NaughtySelf wore. Why didn't I bother? Because I didn't want to admit that I didn't know how to wear it properly. All my attempts resulted in me looking like I splatted a bug against my face.

So comes the day when I had a special event to attend and I wanted to look, well, special. I realized the eye shadow monster was one I would have to conquer.  I studied several high-resolution photographs of models and celebrities and (more or less) figured out the magic secret to avoid the dreaded "dead bug on face" syndrome.
 
And you know what? It worked. And it is fabulous. I adore eye shadow. I adore the definition it gives my eyes. I adore that NaughtyBoyfriend always tells me I look nice when I take the extra minute to swipe on the eye color.

So have I convinced you to give it a try? Good. Run down to the local store and pick up some eye color. To start off, I would recommend something neutral for everyday (tri-color browns) and/or something smoky for evening (tri-color grey & blue).

Now how do you apply? No sweat. I ran across these lovely instructions over at Sex-Kitten.net:

A white (or very light) shadow is swept under the brow, and a darker shade, usually with a grey or blue tone is used to shape the lid. This is done by following along the crease, getting a bit wider with the color application as you near the outer edge. A similar, or deeper color is used to line the eyes. Black mascara is then generously applied. 

Still confused? Check out a few large pictures of your favorite model or celebrity.

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Have you ever gotten into a serious hot and heavy situation and then had to stop, get out of bed, and go rummage through the medicine cabinet for a condom or lube? Get a black storage box that will fit under your bed. Fill this box with necessities (and toys!) you will need and/orwant for sex:

• condoms
• vibrators (and batteries!)
• massage oil
• lubricating jelly/oil
• Neckties and scarfs (for a little restraining fun)
• Blindfold (sleep mask works well)
• Hairbrush (light, spanking fun)
• Thigh-high pantyhose
• Naughty Underwear (thongs, silk boxers)
• Edible body paints
• Feathers
• Fur
• Gloves (satin or lacy)

The most important rule to remember when creating a Sex Box is "Anything Goes" (cue Cole Porter). Seriously, adult toys do not have to come from an adult store. Look around you! Be creative! Many common household items could easily be reinvented for naughty purposes. There is no harm in trying anything once.

Still need help getting started? I would highly recommend you check out the Kama Sutra Bedside Box. Not only is the box absolutely beautiful (I would not mind putting that on my night stand!), but it comes with a nice spread of items to get you started: body dust, a feather, massage oil, and lubrication. All you need to do is throw in a few condoms and your starter box is ready!

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Does your sex life need a spice up? The key may be in the spice - literally.

According to the new book, Great Food, Good Sex, many people eat too much of the wrong foods for dinner, which leaves them feeling sluggish and non-frisky.  The new cookbook recommends heart-healthy recipes that will clean your arteries out in order to "... promote blood flow to the sexual organs. So a diet high in complex carbohydrates, antioxidants and fruits and vegetables will speed up a sluggish sex drive" (Source).

The cookbook also recommends that couples use food preparation as a foreplay activity in which they can engage together. Ideally, that is a fantastic idea...if only our men could find actually find their way to that strange place we call the kitchen.

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Role play exercise: give your lover an erotic bath as if you are his bath slave.

• Start by setting the mood: candles and sweet smelling bath bubbles in the bathroom. Relaxing, non-intrusive, romantic music if you so desire. Don't forget the wine/champange.
• Lead your lover into the bathroom by the hand.
• Slowly undress your lover, caressing him/her as you remove the clothing.
• Lead your lover to the tub and gently place him/her into the warm water.
• Wash your lover's hair - don't forget the erotic scalp massage.
• Using a bath puff and body wash (Olay and Dove are good), wash your lover from head to toe using slow, circular motions.
• Play special attention and care when washing the pubic area. Long, slow stokes build excitement. Remember: the idea here is not to give your lover and orgasm, it is to tease/temp them with the promise of what will come after the bath.
• Once the bath is over, you slowly dry your lover with a large fluffy towel and lead them to the bedroom.

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• Dress up: a sexy nurses' costume or a doctor's coat (with nothing on underneath) will do nicely.
• Wear a pair of surgical gloves: it will enhance the "impersonal" nature of the examination, as well as increase your excitement by perventing you from making skin-to-skin contact with your lover.
• Have your lover lay down on a table or a bed covered with just a white, fitted sheet.
• The "doctor" should make a through examination of his erogenous zones: penis, testicles, anus.
• As the doctor, you must never reveal signs of arousal. Rather, as you touch the "patient", you simply ask how the touch feels.

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Note the title of this chicklet is not "the romantic meal". This meal is for one purpose only: to serve as pre-foreplay for a later sexual encounter. This senario is obviously not to be tried on a first date, but rather with a long-time lover with whom you would like to introduce some spice.

• You and your lover should be wearing sexy clothes. Men: silk PJ bottoms. Women: silky nightgown.
• Set the scene: candles and soft music (Andre Rieu is one of my favorites).
• Prepare things that can be eaten with your fingers: chicken, potato wedges, chopped veggies. Make sure your meal is visually gorgeous. Don't forget the wine/champage!
• Sit close to one another to ensure you "accidently" brush up against one another during the meal.
  
• Feed one another
• Lick one another's fingers
• Play footsie under the table
• Dessert should include some type of chopped fruit. With the fruit, serve chocolate syrup, honey, whipped cream. Depending on your mood, dessert can be eaten from bed: you and your lover can take turns being the plate.

Bon Appetit!

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