John Barrowman says he should consider turning straight because he's so popular with the ladies.
The actor, who's just finished a stint as a judge on Any Dream Will Do, reckons he's a babe magnet.
'I don't get attention from men - it's all women. They try to turn me,' he laughs. 'I'm considering coming out as straight, because if I was into p***y I would be getting so much right now!
'That's my tip to straight lads - pretend you're gay, then the girls want to turn you!'
But the 40-year-old star, who's been dating British designer Scott Gill for six years, can still appreciate a woman's beauty - particularly Dr Who co-star Freema Agyeman.
'She has a nice butt,' he tells Zoo magazine. 'I may be gay, but I appreciate t**s and ass. Nothing beats a good titty-w**k.' (Source)
Yes, he is correct: he is hot and the fan girls love him. Let the Tennant-Barrowman porn fantasies begin!
Phil and Denise have become members of an exclusive and secretive new sexual club – the baggers.
Bagging, or masking, is a fetish that’s being taken up by couples looking for daring ways to spice up their love life.
One of the pair agrees to have their head covered during sex.
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‘Sometimes, I wrap Phil’s head tightly in a silk scarf so he can’t hear or see anything,’ Denise says.
‘I’ve even used a special rubber mask from a fetish shop. But our favourite toy is my plain brown paper bag. I only have to rustle it to get Phil excited.
‘We’ve always liked trying new things in bed. We started experimenting with bagging after Phil read about it on a website.
‘We were both amazed by how much we enjoyed it.
‘Our sex life is much more thrilling since I started covering his head with a paper bag when we make love." (Source)
I’d say there are a couple of things at work in your case. One is that you’re reacting to Oxytocin, which is a hormone related to breast feeding, bonding and uterine contractions. It’s secreted when someone sucks on your nipples, as well as when you have an orgasm, and can make you feel all sexed up and happy. I’m still amazed that someone hasn’t figured out how to extract it, cut it with speed and sell it at raves.
Also, people can do pretty much anything they to want if they put their minds to it. If you wanted to have an orgasm while sitting in an economics seminar, for example, you could. The brain is our biggest sex organ, so whatever you latch onto up there can get you excellent results down there. In fact, I’ve taught myself to have an orgasm with zero physical stimulation. Hands free. I just get a filth fest going on in my brain, concentrate real hard, and there she blows. I’m confident that with a little hard work and a good lesbian gang bang fantasy or two, you could make your knobs go to 11 as well. (Source)
Father's Day may have passed, but according to a new study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior, its spirit may live on in your husband, boyfriend or any other male with whom you may be romantically involved.
According to the study (reported on here by the San Francisco Chronicle), women are attracted not just to guys who act like their fathers but to those who look like them, too -- that is, if their relationships with their fathers are positive ones.
A group of psychologists in England and Poland asked 49 Polish women to look through a bunch of photographs of men and pick out the ones they found the most attractive. They also asked the women about their relationships with their fathers. Turns out that the women who reported getting along well with their fathers showed a preference for men who looked like their dads, whereas women with neutral or negative relationships with their fathers didn't show a preference one way or the other. (Source)
I am tempted to get really creeped out by this. On the other hand, I am ready to get out the Captain Obvious tag for "scientific research on stuff everyone already knows". Bah.
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Authorities in the central state of Madhya Pradesh are planning to ban sales of Crezendo condoms, which have a “vibrating ring” in each pack, on the ground that they should be considered sex toys.
“Condoms should be used for family planning,” said Kailash Vijayvargiya, the public works minister for Madhya Pradesh, which is governed by the Hindu nationalist Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP). These are sex toys to be used for sexual satisfaction,” he told The Times. “I’ve instructed government officers to check if there is a law against such things. If there isn’t a law, we’ll make one.”
His remarks are the latest evidence of how efforts to promote condom use are thwarted by conservative attitudes towards sex in the nation that produced the Kama Sutra. However, that the condoms were on sale shows how rapidly sexual taboos are disintegrating among the young, largely because of exposure to Western culture. (Source)
There are many reasons why he might be finding it hard to climax.
It's not just women who get first night nerves. There is a lot of pressure on men to perform between the sheets, particularly if the relationship means a lot to them.
It's easier for women to hide their nerves in bed and allow the man to take the lead. Put yourself in his shoes. He knows that you've had a difficult run of relationships and is probably feeling the pressure to make sure he doesn't let you down in the same way. Give him time and when he feels more confident in your sex life, he'll perform without any problems. If the situation doesn't improve he might be suffering from a condition called retarded ejaculation.
Men with this disorder enjoy sex and get satisfaction but just can't reach climax. It can be a distressing problem and he's probably had the same issue with previous girlfriends.
Retarded ejaculation can be caused by a variety of factors.
Hidden feelings of guilt or fear about sex that may go back to childhood may be holding him back. He may not even recognise the complex emotions at work.
Alternatively, health problems and prescribed medications can interfere with ejaculation.
If you like this man then don't give up on him - give him the support and patience he gave you.
If you feel confident, find a time when you're both relaxed and bring up the subject. Listen to what he has to say and give him time if he doesn't feel ready to talk. (Source)
